Femme Friday – Jen Deerinwater

Featured in the Advocate’s July 2019 issue as one of the country’s “Champions of Pride,” Jen Deerinwater introduces herself as “a bisexual, multiply-disabled, mixed race Tsalagi, two-spirit, and hard femme citizen of the Cherokee Nation of Oklahoma.” She is also the founder and executive director of Crushing Colonialism, a collective of multi-media Indigenous artists. In the Advocate, she says, “We have a lot of work to do within the queer community to create equity and justice for all of our people. The issues of biphobia, transphobia, sexism, racism, abelism, elitism, colonialism, fat antagonism, and ageism are far too prevalent within our organizations and community spaces. If we’re not working for the justice of all our community members, then we’re not effective as agents of change. LGBTQIA2S+ rights mean the inclusion of the rights of all our people, not simply the most privileged.”

Deep Gratitude to Jen Deerinwater for her activism and truth-speaking; her fearless and necessary articles such as “How White Feminists Fail As Native Allies in the Era of Trump” “Weeding Out the Allies from the White Saviors at Standing Rock” and “Our Pride: Honoring and Recognizing Our Two-Spirit Past and Present”; for her generous and fierce work with Crushing Colonialism (I love Crushing Colonialism’s statement: We are our ancestors hopes turned into photography, art, film, and the written and spoken work); and for being a hard femme of such brilliance and scope!

https://www.jendeerinwater.com/

Every Friday, I showcase a queer femme goddess. I want to feature you! Write to me at thetotalfemme@gmail.com and let me shine a spotlight on your beautiful, unique, femme story! If you’ve written a femme story or poem or song, oh, please let me post it! New Femme Friday feature starting fall 2018: Books from which queer femmes can draw inspiration. What are your trusted sources of light and love? Please share!

At the Total Femme, my intention is to post three times a week: Meditations for Queer Femmes on Monday, Pingy-Dingy Wednesday on Wednesday and Femme Friday on Friday. Rather than play catch-up in a stressful fashion on those weeks when life prevents posting, I have decided to just move gaily forward: if I miss a Monday, the next post will be on Wednesday, and so on. Thank you, little bottle of antibiotics for inspiring me in this! (“…if it’s almost time for the next dose, skip the missed dose and continue your regular dosing schedule. Don’t take a double dose to make up for a missed one.”)

 

 

Published in: on June 14, 2019 at 4:52 AM  Comments (2)  
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Femme Friday – Annah Anti-Palindrome

Funny thing – you go on the internet to research femmes, and things can get very slippery. You see someone somewhere who has written about femmes or being femme, and then you track them down and their website says nothing at all about being femme. It’s very odd! Not so with Anna Anti-Palindrome, whose work I first encountered in Everyday Feminism, where she pairs up with Rhea Ewing for a very thorough discussion of femme in “11 Common Assumptions About Being a Queer Femme – Debunked”.

When I went to Annah’s website, there it was: “Annah Anti-Palindrome is a Bay-Area based musician/Optical Sound-Smith, writer & working-class, Jew Witch hard-femme (italics mine) currently living in Oakland.”

Deep gratitude to Annah for being an out femme, for her heart-breaking, haunting art, and for making me laugh and think hard about my own palindromic name!

https://www.annahantipalindrome.com/music

Every Friday, I showcase a queer femme goddess. I want to feature you! Write to me at thetotalfemme@gmail.com and let me shine a spotlight on your beautiful, unique, femme story! New Femme Friday feature for fall 2018: Books from which queer femmes can draw inspiration. What are your trusted sources of light and love? Please share!

At the Total Femme, my intention is to post three times a week: Meditations for Queer Femmes on Monday, Pingy-Dingy Wednesday on Wednesday and Femme Friday on Friday. Rather than play catch-up in a stressful fashion on those weeks when life prevents posting, I have decided to just move gaily forward: if I miss a Monday, the next post will be on Wednesday, and so on. Thank you, little bottle of antibiotics for inspiring me in this! (“…if it’s almost time for the next dose, skip the missed dose and continue your regular dosing schedule. Don’t take a double dose to make up for a missed one.”)

 

Published in: on September 21, 2018 at 6:00 PM  Comments (3)  
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